Beyond Tom, Dick, Harry and Mary: Choosing Your Baby’s Name
Choosing your baby’s name is one of the most important roles you have to prepare for as new parents. Your baby will carry the name you choose from the first day of his existence and even after his death. A name spells an individual’s personality and you had been given the honor to give it to your child, something he or she will carry on for life. It is therefore important that in choosing your baby’s name, choose one that will fit your baby and your family.
Baby names research
Choosing your baby’s name should be included in your overall preparation during your pregnancy. You should plan because many unprepared parents decide on the name of their baby on the spur of the moment.
Think and choose a name for your baby long before he is born. Start keeping a list of names that are in the running as soon as you get pregnant. With more than 50,000 common names and spelling variations available, you will have a hard time choosing a name for your baby.
Many resources are available to help you in choosing your baby’s name. There are hundreds of books available for you to peruse, or you can browse the internet and thousands of websites can help you choose possible baby names. Software generating baby names are also available.
Get your partner’s participation and be open to suggestions from other people as well. You can have fun trying to find a name for your baby. Try coming up with a list, crushing out the most common ones that would divert your purpose of giving your baby a unique personality.
Avoiding The Ima Hogg Curse
In choosing your baby’s name, try to think of the future because some parents deliberately or unintentionally give their children names which could prove annoying to the child. It may also be a cause for other children to tease your kid. Try coming up with different combinations of names, jot it down and try to pronounce it, check if the name sounds and rhymes with something unpleasant. You can also ask a second opinion from friends or family members.
Coming Up With Unique Spelling
In choosing your baby’s name, consider your child’s future. Many parents give their children names with weird and unique spellings and pronunciations which may give adverse effects and may even trigger teasing from other children.
Give your child a name that he/she will not resent later. You should also consider the spelling because if you choose to alter a common spelling like Christopher to Kristoffaer, or Daniel to Dayniel, your child may spend his entire life checking and correcting the spelling of his name everywhere.
It is best to prepare names for both sexes because even if your doctor has performed an ultrasound and confirmed your baby’s gender ahead, there is always a chance of being wrong. You can wait until the baby is born for a final decision.
When you ask for opinions, you will be flooded with suggestions and recommendations from friends and family members and this may confuse you. However, you must remember that your child’s name is for you to decide. You alone have the final say.
Choosing your baby’s name is a very important task you will ever undertake and it is your lifetime gift to your child. You should select your options carefully because your baby will be carrying the name that you choose for life.
Here is a list of the most popular baby names.
Popular Baby Boy Names |
Popular Baby Girl Names |
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| 1. Jacob 2. Michael 3. Joshua 4. Matthew 5. Ethan 6. Andrew 7. Daniel 8 .William 9. Joseph 10. Christopher 11. Anthony 12. Ryan 13. Nicholas 14. David 15. Alexander 16. Tyler 17. James 18. John 19. Dylan 20. Nathan 21. Jonathan 22. Brandon 23. Samuel 24. Christian 25. Benjamin |
26. Zachary 27. Logan 28. Jose 29. Noah 30. Justin 31. Elijah 32. Gabriel 33. Caleb 34. Kevin 35. Austin 36. Robert 37. Thomas 38. Connor 39. Evan 40. Aidan 41. Jack 42. Luke 43. Jordan 44. Angel 45. Isaiah 46. Isaac 47. Jason 48. Jackson 49. Hunter 50. Cameron |
1. Emily 2. Emma 3. Madison 4. Olivia 5. Hannah 6. Abigail 7. Isabella 8. Ashley 9. Samantha 10. Elizabeth 11. Alexis 12. Sarah 13. Grace 14. Alyssa 15. Sophia 16. Lauren 17. Brianna 18. Kayla 19. Natalie 20. Anna 21. Jessica 22. Taylor 23. Chloe 24. Hailey 25. Ava |
26. Jasmine 27. Sydney 28. Victoria 29. Ella 30. Mia 31. Morgan 32. Julia 33. Kaitlyn 34. Rachel 35. Katherine 36. Megan 37. Alexandra 38. Jennifer 39. Destiny 40. Allison 41. Savannah 42. Haley 43. Mackenzie 44. Brooke 45. Maria 46. Nicole 47. Makayla 48. Trinity 49. Kylie 50. Kaylee |


